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Raechel's Weekly Updates
- Messy Church is October 25th at 4:00 PM. If you have pumpkin carving tools please bring them. I visited some farms this week and have gathered lots of pumpkins so be ready for some messy fun!
- Nursery/Family Room Help Needed– We are looking for volunteers to assist in the nursery during worship. If you feel you would like to help one Sunday per month, please contact Raechel. Nursery help is needed following the Time with Young Disciples until the conclusion of worship. You don’t even have to miss the sermon; we have a monitor with worship streamed into the room. ** Volunteers need to be background checked.
- November 1st: Breakfast, 3rd Grade Bibles, Communion and All Saints Bell Ringing.
Raechel Sowa
Director of Children, Youth and Family Ministries
Presbyterian Church of Barrington
Weekly Updates Archive
Week of October 14, 2026
- Messy Church is October 25th at 4:00 PM. If you have pumpkin carving tools please bring them. I visited some farms this week and have gathered lots of pumpkins so be ready for some messy fun!
- Nursery/Family Room Help Needed– We are looking for volunteers to assist in the nursery during worship. If you feel you would like to help one Sunday per month, please contact Raechel. Nursery help is needed following the Time with Young Disciples until the conclusion of worship. You don’t even have to miss the sermon; we have a monitor with worship streamed into the room. ** Volunteers need to be background checked.
- November 1st: Breakfast, 3rd Grade Bibles, Communion and All Saints Bell Ringing.
Raechel Sowa
Director of Children, Youth and Family Ministries
Presbyterian Church of Barrington
Week of October 7, 2026
- Bags are slowly getting replaced. This week Emerson (Emmy), Amelia, Elizabeth and Emma have bags in the room.
- There are new worship cards for our bigger kids. You will find them in a basket on the tall bookshelf. Grab a ring of cards and a dry erase marker and follow along in worship. We will be adding some new bulletin stickers and offering cards too. Stay tuned
- Brand new book by Laura Alary on the shelf. Check it out today and let us know what you think.
- We will be adding SS once a month in the near future.
- Fifth Sunday’s will be when our children/youth and families help lead worship. November 29th is the first date. Sign up sheet can be found here. Great time to talk with your kids about how they think they would want to lead.
- Messy Church will be from 4:00-5:30 PM
Raechel Sowa
Director of Children, Youth and Family Ministries
Presbyterian Church of Barrington
Week of September 30, 2026
First Sunday Family Breakfast Club is this Sunday.…are you able to make it? If you get a chance to respond, let me know. We gather in FH starting at 9:15am and it is open to all. Come for breakfast and then stay to be fed spiritually in worship. Jana Blazek is preaching this week while David is out on vacation.Messy Church is back on October 25th! We had a few people respond to our survey (if you responded yet, please do so today!) and right now it looks like 4:00-5:30pm is a good time for you all, so we will give it a try. Dinner will be included so make plans to join us on October 25th. Our theme is Generosity and it ties in with Stewardship. Middle School will meet for a lesson and fun in the youth room. Friends are always welcome.Middle School/High School Fall Retreat at Stronghold is November 6-8th. Deadline to let me know your child(ren) can make it is October 18th. Cost is $80 and covers everything.
Laura Alary is a favorite and her book The Dot we Call Home is FREE on Amazon Audiobook. Great for kids ages 5-10 but I think adults will enjoy it too. Claim it today and happy reading.Speaking of books: Theo of Golden, The Correspondent and The Calamity Club are my favorites this year. LOVE them all! Have you read any of them?My new favorite way to enjoy coffee. Why have I not had this before?! I am enjoying this coffee roaster out of Madison, WI. Just ran out so it is time to grab more.
Raechel Sowa
Director of Children, Youth and Family Ministries
Presbyterian Church of Barrington
Week of September 16, 2026
This Sunday is our last outdoor worship of the season (although it looks like rain so we will most likely be indoors) and it is also a baptism. Your children will once again participate in the baptism following the Time with Young Disciples.CROP Walk is October 11th and your participation is key to ending hunger. Here is the link to sign up or donate to our team. This is a wonderful way for your family to serve together. Kick off is from St. Anne’s.Third Grade Bibles will be gifted on November 1st during worship. If you have a 3rd grader or a 4th/5th grader that didn’t receive their bible, please make plans to join us.
Raechel Sowa
Director of Children, Youth and Family Ministries
Presbyterian Church of Barrington
Week of September 9, 2026
Raechel Sowa
Director of Children, Youth and Family Ministries
Presbyterian Church of Barrington
Week of September 2, 2026
- Please sit with your child(ren)
- Remind your child(ren) that whispering voices are how we talk in worship. It is good to wonder and ask questions…just need to be mindful of others around us. (I sometimes think this is a good reminder for adults too)
- Standing up to wiggle during a song or participate in worship is perfect and encouraged. We do need to stay on the carpeted area and not run around though. This doesn’t mean we can’t get up to go to the bathroom, nursery, etc.
- Cushions need to stay out of the aisles.
- September 6-Family Breakfast Club @ 9:15am in Fellowship Hall. There will be a sign up to help host future breakfasts (with us..not alone) and Debra will be sharing our ideas for the upcoming year. Please note: these ideas are not set in stone. We want your input.
- September 13th-Messy Church @ 5PM. Sign up is not necessary but it does help with food preparation. You can sign up HERE or in Fellowship Hall on Sunday. Please note: We will celebrate our CE volunteers in worship on the 13th as well (this includes many of you!).
- September 20th-Baptism of JJ Dowell
- September 27th- Kick Off Sunday….full choir returns
Friends, churches tend to want to create a program for everything. Our hearts tell us to make sure everyone gets what they need to learn about God and become a disciple of Jesus which means, we add to your already busy life. I am guilty of this which is why this year we have tried to create faith formation/community opportunities that don’t fill up your calendar and allow for your entire family to participate together. There will be times for seperate learning, but church shouldn’t be a place you need to be away from your children (nursery is available if you do want a break though. lol) Jesus said come to me and I will give you rest, not a full calendar. With that said, I highly encourage you to give Messy Church a try on September 13th so we can get feedback and make decisions for the next few months based on your input. I think you will like it and if nothing else, you don’t have to cook dinner one night.
Popcorn Anyone?
Bring Your Own Bucket is returning to Cinemark in Deer Park this Sunday. For one day only, we’re filling your craziest buckets to the brim (up to 400oz; equal to 2 XL popcorns) for just $5 and I don’t think you even have to stay for a movie. If you go, take a picture of the bucket you fill. I think this sounds like a blast.
Finally, beloved writer and environmentalist, Wendall Berry died this week at the age of 92. You can read about Mr. Berry here. I may have shared his work with you in the past but I can’t help but share a favorite one more time. A reminder to be present, slow down and take in the world around you. He was truly one of the greats and will be missed.
When despair for the world grows in me
and I wake in the night at the least sound
in fear of what my life and my children’s lives may be,
I go and lie down where the wood drake
rests in his beauty on the water, and the great heron feeds.
I come into the peace of wild things
who do not tax their lives with forethought
of grief. I come into the presence of still water.
And I feel above me the day-blind stars
waiting with their light. For a time
I rest in the grace of the world, and am free.
May you find peace in the ordinary and in the chaos. This reflection from Arianne Braithwaite Lehn may resonate with you and is fitting with the above poem. The above artwork is from this reflection.
Raechel Sowa
Director of Children, Youth and Family Ministries
Presbyterian Church of Barrington

Week of August 19, 2026
Raechel Sowa
Director of Children, Youth and Family Ministries
Presbyterian Church of Barrington
Week of August 12, 2026

Raechel Sowa
Director of Children, Youth and Family Ministries
Presbyterian Church of Barrington
Week of July 22, 2026
I hope you have some time to get outside and enjoy this beautiful weather.
Raechel Sowa
Director of Children, Youth and Family Ministries
Presbyterian Church of Barrington
Week of July 15, 2026
Raechel Sowa
Director of Children, Youth and Family Ministries
Presbyterian Church of Barrington
Week of July 8, 2026
Raechel Sowa
Director of Children, Youth and Family Ministries
Presbyterian Church of Barrington
Week of July 1, 2026
Raechel Sowa
Director of Children, Youth and Family Ministries
Presbyterian Church of Barrington
Ms. Raechel's Weekly Updates- January-June 2026
Week of June 17, 2026
- The youth mission team is off to Rapid City, SD this Sunday. We will return on the 27th and will be in worship on the 28th to share our week with you. Please plan on being in church on the 28th to support the youth but to also inspire our younger children for the future.
- Next weekend is also the MOTH Concert on Saturday night (grounds open at 5:30pm and concert begins at 7). This is a ravinia style evening so pack a family dinner and come listen to some great music. Will you be attending? Let us all know so we can look for one another.
- Joseph and the Amazing TechniColor Dreamcoat is next Sunday at 2PM. Sign up in Fellowship Hall. This is a great family friendly show so I hope you will consider attending.
Raechel Sowa
Director of Children, Youth and Family Ministries
Presbyterian Church of Barrington
Week of June 10, 2026
Raechel Sowa
Director of Children, Youth and Family Ministries
Presbyterian Church of Barrington
Week of June 3, 2026
- To Go Summer packs will be available for pick up on Sunday. These fun activity packs are great for cars, boats, planes, trains, beaches, mountains, etc. etc. DoorDash (aka Raechel) is an option if you can’t make it Sunday to pick up your bag. Set up your delivery today.
- Pastor David will be preaching a series on the disciples this summer and these inclusive, diverse, and historically accurate paper dolls may be a great addition to your family dinner table discussion.
- Speaking of the family table, check out this video by Traci Smith on ways to incorporate prayer into your daily routine. It is all about practice and finding the right rhythm that works for your family
Raechel Sowa
Director of Children, Youth and Family Ministries
Presbyterian Church of Barrington
Week of May 27 2026
Don’t forget to join the First Sunday Family Breakfast Club on Sunday, June 7th at 9:15am. No RSVP needed…just come!We will be celebrating our graduates on June 14th in worship and during our fellowship hour. Stop by Fellowship Hall between now and then to sign our HS graduate books. We will gift the books on June 14th.
MOTH Concert on June 27th. This is a family friendly Ravinia style event that takes place on the lawn at PCB. Let’s all gather for a fun night. Parking lot opens at 5:30 and the concert begins at 7pm.
Planning a fun game for my son’s wedding shower. All those youth group games are coming in handy! The birds chirping, tomatoes that are sprouting, and lazy summer mornings. Oh, and I took my first boat ride this week. Time on the water makes me so happy and brings my pure joy!
Raechel Sowa
Director of Children, Youth and Family Ministries
Presbyterian Church of Barrington
Week of May 20 2026
- Have you signed up for the Ross Bogue Memorial 5K? Call a friend, another family, your sister/brother and consider taking a walk together next Saturday, May 30th. The money raised supports local food pantries, Habitat for Humanity and other missions supported by PCB. Don’t forget to grab a treat at the youth bake sale before your walk. Donations from the bake sale support their mission trip to Rapid City, SD.
- Our next First Sunday Family Breakfast Club is June 7th at 9:15am. A light breakfast and wonderful conversation awaits you in Fellowship Hall. We will be distributing our To Go Summer packs. A fun way to incorporate God into your summer routine.
- We will be celebrating our graduates on June 14th. Stop by Fellowship Hall to write a short note in our high school graduate gift books. Kids should sign too!
Raechel Sowa
Director of Children, Youth and Family Ministries
Presbyterian Church of Barrington
Week of May 13 2026
Raechel Sowa
Director of Children, Youth and Family Ministries
Presbyterian Church of Barrington
Week of Apr. 29, 2026
Our First Sunday Breakfast Club is this week. Join us in Fellowship Hall at 9:15 for a light meal and a great time with other parents, caregivers, and children. This monthly gathering is truly becoming one of my favorite activities at PCB. I hope you will join us.Don’t forget to sign up to walk/run the 5K on May 30th! Please share this link with your friends/family. This event serves our neighbors at our local food pantries, Habitat for Humanity and more. You can even support our youth at the event by purchasing some baked goods. They are hosting a bake sale to raise funds for our trip to Rapid City, SD this June. https://www.pcbarrington.org/run-the- hills/ May 1st is May Day and a great day to show a neighbor some love. Leave a basket of flowers on their stoop, bake some cookies, have the kids write/draw words of encouragement, kindness and love on the sidewalks, or simply pick up the phone or knock on the door to say hello. Learn all about May Day here:https://www.almanac.com/content/what-may-day If you have your kids dance around a Maypole I want pictures!!
Is there a prayer practice you started this year that worked for your family? Did you keep it going or put it on the backburner once Lent or Advent was over? Now is the time to bring it back. Practices don’t have to be fancy, time consuming, or require lots of items to make them happen. Prayer practices are as simple as a bedtime prayer, highs/lows at dinner (or in the car on the way to practice), or lighting a candle and naming things your family has on their hearts/minds. Just like baseball and piano, prayer takes practice. Here is your reminder to begin again or keep going.
All the colors when you look outside your window. Oh, and the anticipation of weather consistently warm enough for evening boat rides. Slow evening boat rides are one of my most favorite summer activities. What is yours?
Raechel Sowa
Director of Children, Youth and Family Ministries
Presbyterian Church of Barrington
Week of Apr. 22, 2026
This week in Sunday School we are going to have Breakfast on the Beach with Jesus. This is a continuation of the stories of Eastertide and specifically Peter’s reconciliation. Breakfast will be more of a snack and the carpet in the library will be the beach, but our imaginations will help us feel the sand, hear the waves, and picture Jesus forgiving Peter.
This week is also a celebration of 20 years of ministry for our music director. In order for the kids to help her celebrate in Fellowship Hall immediately following worship, I would like to take the kids out of worship following the sermon. I will remind you all during Time with Young Disciples. All kids 5 years- 6th grade should join us for faith formation.
Idea worth sharing: Show and Tell Dinner. Prepare your children’s favorite meal (or hand them a cookbook and have them choose the meal) and then spend dinner and the time following the meal to have the kids show and tell their talents. Maybe its a new magic trick, math skill, piano piece, or whatever. Enjoy
Things I am loving right now: the windows open!!!!! Oh and the book, Project Hail Mary. Can’t wait to see the movie too.
Reminders: MOTH Concert is this Sunday at 3PM and childcare is available from 2:30-4:30pm. Family Breakfast Club is May 3rd! We will gather at 9:15 am in FH for a light meal and great conversation.
Enjoy your week,
Raechel Sowa
Director of Children, Youth and Family Ministries
Presbyterian Church of Barrington
Week of Apr. 8, 2026
Parenting for Justice Summit — I’m excited to be speaking at the PARENTING FOR JUSTICE FORUM with a lot of people I admire, including Bishop Yvette Flunder and Dr. Almeda Wright. The forum is a free 5-day virtual gathering for parents, caregivers, educators, and community leaders who want to raise children who feel safe, affirmed, and free to be fully themselves. If you’re interested in lifetime paid access to this summit, you can get your ticket HERE!
Raechel Sowa
Director of Children, Youth and Family Ministries
Presbyterian Church of Barrington
Holy Week, 2026
Raechel Sowa
Director of Children, Youth and Family Ministries
Presbyterian Church of Barrington
Week of Mar. 25, 2026
Raechel Sowa
Director of Children, Youth and Family Ministries
Presbyterian Church of Barrington
Week of Mar. 18, 2026
Raechel Sowa
Director of Children, Youth and Family Ministries
Presbyterian Church of Barrington
Week of Mar. 11, 2026
- Children will learn to sing a Psalm during our Time with Young Disciples and then help lead the congregation following the message.
- Intergenerational Faith Formation has us making God’s eye mandalas, caring cards for our caregivers, and blankets for those in hospice. I encourage you to spend a few minutes after worship growing your faith. Oh, and there will be cake to celebrate our Stephen Ministers and to celebrate the life of Richard Shoppert.
- Help us provide drinks and dessert for the teachers at Countryside School on March 18th and March 19th. Sign up HERE
- Meal in a Bag items needed. On March 22nd and 29th we will be preparing Meal in a Bags for our friends at FISH Food Pantry. On the menu is Southwestern Black Bean Soup. Consider adding the following to your grocery list this week: 16 oz. can black beans, 15 oz. can corn, 14.5 oz can fire roasted diced tomatoes, 4 oz. can diced green chiles, 1 taco seasoning packet and 32 oz. vegetable broth. Items may be placed in the bin outside Fellowship Hall.
- Save the Date: April 18th at 5PM PCB will be gathering together at Feed My Starving Children in Libertyville. Anyone 5 years and older can serve in this fun packing event. Details and how to sign up will land in your inbox soon.
- Fish Banks: Are you feeding your fish? I have been having fun using the calendar and putting coins in the bank.
You don’t need elaborate, you need intentional. (Those are different!). I encourage you to proactively choose one steady rhythm during Holy Week*, just one thread that helps your family walk the story slowly and helps it become personal.
Here are some ideas!
- If your family listens well: read a section of Jesus’ last week (the last few chapters of each gospel) every day of Holy Week.
- If your kids like crafts: do a simple craft each day (but don’t do crafts so elaborate that it makes you spend $100 at the store and take you hours to prep!).
- If you love a storybook Bible: light a candle each night and read through a page of the Jesus Storybook Bible.
- If your kids like puzzles and secret codes: invite your kids into one escape-room style puzzle each day, a puzzle that gets them intrigued by the Easter story.
- If your kids are really young and squirmy: play through one aspect of the Easter story each day.
Just pick ONE thread that helps your family walk the story slowly. (Not all 5, you Type A people, just one…).
Finally, I finished Theo of Golden (one of the things I was loving last week) and oh my, it was fabulous. Self published author with a book that Barnes and Noble can’t keep in stock. Grab a copy (or borrow mine) today.
Director of Children, Youth and Family Ministries
Week of Mar. 4, 2026
- March Madness to support the youth mission trip is underway. $50 gets you a team (which will be randomly chosen on March 16th) and if your team wins the tournament, you will split the pot with the youth mission group. Sign up in Fellowship Hall or contact Jodie Harmsen or myself.
- We need volunteers to purchase drinks and make dessert for the teachers at Countryside School (neighbors at the bottom of the hill) on March 18th and 19th. Consider this fun way to give back to our neighbors…sign up HERE
- Kids sing at church on March 15th…hope to see you there.
Week of Feb. 25, 2026
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Week of Jan. 28, 2026
- First Sunday so there is no Sunday School. Nursery care is available following the Time with Young Disciples.
- We will be helping lead worship by singing with the choir during the offering. Kirsten will teach during Time with Young Disciples
- February 7th- MOTH Concert….dinner and concert…sign up outside Fellowship Hall
Faith formation is not something we control. We don’t manufacture belief, force growth, or single handedly shape our kids’ hearts. God is the one who calls our children. He is already at work in their lives, long before we notice it and even when we feel unsure.
Our role is quieter than we sometimes think.
- We point our kids toward God in small, ordinary ways. (Breakfast Club?)
- We show up for them, paying attention to them.
- We build a few sustainable faith habits so our family has a culture of trusting the Bible and turning to God. (Dinner Table Conversations, Bedtime prayers)
- We pray.
- We talk when opportunities arise. (car rides were always great times for my family. captive audience!)
- And we trust that God is at work in the middle of it all.